Why am I writing about my father, Oscar Williams,
and my mother, Gene Derwood, now in the older years of my life? I
look at the skyline of New York that we have pictured here and I
see the buildings, yes, but also the thousands of significant
people who have made their lives in New York City. Those buildings
come alive again for me. They house real people who moved from all
over uncultured America to live in the highest culture of the world
at the time, Twentieth Century America in New York City, with its
adjunct in Chicago!
My parents were immigrants to New York City. My father came from
Russia as a small boy of six in around 1906 and grew up in
Brooklyn. My mother escaped home in her teenage years from the
MidWest and arrived in New York City. Gene and Oscar met each other
in the offices of a literary magazine, maybe in 1921, and married
three days later, as Oscar used to tell it. True love at first
sight? More like literary intuition. They saw in each other the
love of poetry and the arts. They saw in each other a high
intelligence and a driving ambition, even then at a young age, for
immortality through writings that would endure.
Did they achieve their lofty ambitions of youth? Do any of us
achieve our high potentials and thirst of the soul, so dominant
when we enter adult life?
I am here to tell about it. I am their son, a somewhat published
writer myself, and expert in a different field than they chose. My
mother said I would never be a writer but a psychologist. That was
my fate. I am a psychologist, and a rather well-known one at that.
Yet, despite such a destiny I now take up my love of writing again
and apply it to this memoir on my parents and growing up as their
son.
I never chose to live in New York City, nor was I allowed to for
long, since they sent me off to boarding school at age six, never
to return home again to live. But I knew them in New York for two
weeks every Christmas. I knew the cowboy movies with my father at
42nd St. and Times Square. I knew midnight Christmas mass with my
mother at St. John The Divine Cathedral. I did not lack the New
York experience.
I honor my parents here, but life is not all roses and so this New
York Life will not be roses only either. I welcome this blog and
honor much of what they were with it. I welcome all who come
forward to support this new kind of publishing on the Web and in
the book I am now writing, The Life And Death Of Oscar Williams. I
thank Ineke Duursema, a special friend and admirer of my mother,
Gene Derwood. She is the coordinator for this blog and also the
Dreamwork site, and committed to it for years.
For any inadequacies and failings here, please address yourself to
yours truly. As the one and only son, I am not exactly unbiased. As
an imaginative writer I may dramatize a bit here and there. As a
psychologist I may penetrate into some scary places, but always
with the hope of redemption. As a person also I hope to paint with
words in compassion and fun, enjoying the plastering of words as a
high and inspiring art in itself.
If you join us, welcome!
